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I’m not a water person. I’ve tried wading into the sea many times— just in case I’d changed my mind since the last time. I’m a mountain person. Mountains wait for you to come to them, but you can enjoy them from afar too. If you wade into the sea, sooner or later you will find a wave that is larger than you think it is going to be. It may swamp you—knock you off your feet, even, and take you where you don’t want to go. This is not always a bad thing, I know. But this post isn’t about swimming in the sea, it’s about how I avoid being swamped by the deluge of modern media, and use it to inspire.
A few days ago I happened across an article written by James Clear. I’d never heard of him before. Had I not signed up for a curated series of articles through a site called Medium, I would still not have heard of him. The article was titled ‘Forget about setting goals; Focus on this instead’. He talked about goals being the things we want to achieve, but the systems we put in place being the manner by which we achieve them. I liked the clear (pardon pun) way he set out the article and at the end he offered a subscription to a free newsletter he writes; which led me to a free article he had written called ‘Mastering Creativity: A Brief Guide on How to Overcome Creative Blocks’(you have to sign up for his newsletter to get access to this article or I would give you the link). I have been trying to start a new creative practice of drawing for some months now. I’m getting nowhere. Ok it’s probably because I’m just not drawing much. Ahem. Other areas of creative endeavour are flowing along, some better and some less so, but not the drawing. I thought perhaps reading someone else’s view on the pursuit of creativity might be called for. I liked his simple and direct way of making practical suggestions, most of which were things I have read before, but it never hurts to be reminded again.
James’s article and subsequent information is an example of how I am often led through a logical progression to break up the cobwebs and introduce new thought patterns. You probably have your own ways to use things like Instagram, Twitter and blogs as inspiration. In some cases I deliberately follow accounts I know nothing about. I don’t necessarily want to learn how to do whatever the subject of the feed, but it helps expand my thinking toward what is possible. I follow an Instagram account about sourdough bread baking by a fellow who is an artisan baker in Italy (Insta: ca_mia_breadlab); also an account about extreme knitting by a young woman who uses custom made knitting needles the size of drain pipes (I know!); an Instagram account about a young woman who executes incredible street art; also an artist who draws unusual little characters that are tremendously empathic beings (I’m so infatuated with her work). I also follow a few photographers (this link is for Australian based photographer Leanne Cole, whose work I love and who remains very accessible) that publish images I can relate to and learn from, as well as people who live in other parts of Australia and other countries. It’s a big world out there. What is the point surrounding myself with that which I’m already familiar?
• Twitter – I often see articles of writing that interest me, most recently a book titled ‘We’re All Going to Die’ by Leah Kaminsky—not a grim reaper sort of book, but a book about culture and our experiences and conversations around death.
• Blogs – seem to evolve as friendship as well as inspiration because often the authors write from a very personal viewpoint about things in their lives. I’m more partial to blogs that are well written than I am likely to follow just because they are different. Blog writing is an art of its own. (here is a recent, and very short article with very useful writing tips)
I realised a couple of years ago I needed to curate my social media encounters the way a museum curates works of art, and the way I choose my friends—carefully, meaningfully. If it becomes too much, before long, nothing is special. But that is just me. I am easily stimulated, and equally, easily over-stimulated. I need to follow authors and artists that don’t overwhelm me. Sometimes that means I ‘unfollow’. You may be able to ignore what you don’t want to read, but I have to look at it and digest it before I can accept or reject it and move on. All that functioning and sensory input overwhelms my brain easily.

this serene image wouldn’t be possible if I hadn’t learned to shoot and edit iPhone photos from iPhone Photography School, all online
It seems to me in today’s world, there are two ways to go (probably more). You can purposefully seek media encounters that inspire you, or you can allow the flooding deluge of it all to carry you hither and yon. I may visit hither and yon one day, but when I do it will be a purposeful journey, taken because the inspiration has led me there and not because I was knocked off my feet and washed upon its shores unexpectedly.
How do you use modern media to inspire you?
(note: the link to the Artisan Baker in Italy is for his airbnb residence where he teaches bread baking; Instagram is where I found, and follow him, if you are so inclined)
Such a great post! I use blogging to inspire and as an outlet for my own creativity. And yes, I follow many blogs whose message is so different from my own. It is a great way to learn something new. It also establishes connections to people you may never had met otherwise. I cherish those connections. At the moment I have been turned on to iPhone photography and your images certainly inspire here. By the way, I would take mountains over seashores anytime.
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I certainly agree with all you say. Blogs and Instagram, particularly have introduced me to many friends and interesting aspects all around the world. Living in a relatively isolated place, this has been especially impactful to me. Thank you so much Debi, see you on the mountain!
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Another thoughtful post, many things to mull over. Clear’s article was good, and I signed up for the newsletter, even though I am feeling overwhelmed by my inbox at the moment. However, like you I am trying to be more selective about what I read. I love Leanne’s photography too.
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I know what you mean, Anne, about the inbox feeling overwhelming. Mine gets that way every now and then and I know it’s time for a re-evaluation of things. It will be interesting to see what Clear’s newsletter is about. It sounds promising. I’m glad you enjoy Leanne’s photography too. I especially appreciate that she is so accessible and will answer questions and respond to comments. So many people who have a lot of followers let all of that fall by the way.
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I think it goes without saying given our roadtrip following the coast where my affection lays but I also love the fresh air & vantage points of mountains. Modern media, for me, answers many questions I ask and more I didn’t but needed to find anyway. If the tide of information threatens to swamp me, I step back knowing it and more will still be there if-when I want to dip into it again. Similarly, I dipped into the links of this post, very interesting and thought food for mulling over.
Thank you for the link to Leanne Cole, I was a follower in her early days, it’s great to see what she has gone on to accomplish.
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Thank you Dale. I always appreciate your well considered comments. Some of my best friends are water persons 😉
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Brilliant post Ardys. Modern media offers us endless opportunities to learn and connect. I think you are so right about needing to choose what inspires us and also what to let go so as not to be overwhelmed, and I love your analogy to the sea. You have inspired me to think more carefully about my own purposeful journey.
Jacquie
PS so glad you enjoyed Leah’s book!
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Thank you so much Jacquie. I confess I was reflecting on some of your posts regarding creativity as I wrote this. It’s such a gift that we can inspire each other in this way. Keep well.
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Another thoughtful post Ardys, I appreciate that you are part of my blogging community. I love that media relationships come without baggage, that you can pick and choose, accept and reject without fear of judgement or disappointment. I really admire your photography, you create works of art and I’m absolutely in awe that it’s all done with a phone. I lug a heavy DSLR around, probably should get with it. It takes great discipline to prioritize time demands, something I need to work on, but as an armchair resource technology has every answer. I recently designed my daughters wedding dress, drafted the pattern and constructed the dress with help from the media. I learned to insert an invisible zip and blind finish the sleeveless bodice from bloggers. There is no end of talent out there. Now to check out your recommended blogs…🍾
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Such high praise, Sandra, from one who takes beautiful photos. Thank you. I’m very impressed that you could make your daughter’s wedding dress, and even more so that you learned so much technique from the internet. Wow. Please don’t tell my daughter 🙂
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I love your analogy here. I have not ventured so deeply in the waters of modern media since, as an introvert, even an hour of research or simply perusing has me swimming back to shore for respite on the sand. I do climb the mountains of challenge from time to time, but my world is more cocooned in the woodlands where I feel comfortable. What I love about your blog, is the wisdom you offer, beautiful and candid writing, and interesting photography that accompanies each post. I feel refreshed, soothed and sometimes I learn something new that I wish to try or discover. You inspire me, as a beloved teacher would. I suppose in some sense, you draw me from the enchanted woods, to experience and challenge myself in a gentle way. I’m enough of an adventurist that yes, I will always venture out and get knocked off my feet, or scare myself half silly climbing that mountain of information. But it’s always lovely to come home to what we know and creatively work with what we have right here where we are. Does that make sense? 🙂
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There is another very interesting analogy, ‘enchanted woods’. Aren’t we a funny mix of things? I gave a favourite tree a love pat yesterday after taking its photo, so I relate to woodlands too. I’m an introvert as well, but I love a little adventure as long as I can retreat now and then and regain my equilibrium. You can be assured what you said made total sense to me. Thank you for your very kind thoughts, Lori.
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‘Where does the sea of modern media take you?’ . . . . It has taken me all the 5-6 years I have ‘partaken’ to begin following a path in which I can believe. To each their own: I am learning to know ‘that is for me’ and quietly delete perfectly lovely people who may not resonate. As I work and study fulltime from home at an age many have chosen to close these doors there is what macro-economists call ‘an opportunity COST of time’ me – I try to follow that . . . . in my case I cannot manage more than the email blogs and letters . . . so I steadfastly have resisted the one fantastic, fabulous year I ‘spent’ on Facebook way back when [methinks the incredible part was MZ asking for my ‘friendship’!!!] which became a fulltime job’!! I hope that the ‘flooding deluge’ will never overcome me: at the same time I express huge gratitude for all the friends I have made and all the places I have been . . .
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I liked your turn of phrase; ‘quietly delete perfectly lovely people who may not resonate’. Yes, that is the key, learning who or what resonates and who/what doesn’t. It takes a while to figure it out. Facebook and I did not resonate. Kudos to you, Eha, for studying and keeping the doors open. My husband got his PhD at age 65 and now at 68 has never been more productive, and enjoying it (mostly). Thank you for reading and commenting.
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This post can easily be connected to your last post in that we can quickly allow our modern media accounts to become “littered”. Digital litter I guess it would be. It is so true that we have to be very purposeful about how we choose to use modern media. Loved reading all the comments on this post, too!
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Yes, I loved all the comments on this post, too, including yours–good turn of phrase ‘digital litter’. Thank you! xx
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So many things here to consider Ardys. First of all let me complement you on your images but in particular, the one with the bird’s nest. stunning.
I often feel a little too addicted to social media, in the form of blogs and Facebook, and as a consequence, have not joined up with any other platforms- enough is enough. On the positive side, I get to have meaningful dialogue with new found friends, I can keep in touch with my children far more effectively and see pics of my 6 grandchildren as they grow, achieve, and celebrate. I just watched Gurramul and Paul Kelly sing Amazing Grace and cried. I can read the Guardian, the age and any Italian newspaper online anywhere, I am more informed than I ever was, the thesaurus sits ready on my toolbar, and so on…..
On the negative side, the internet and social media is a huge time waster and I do often worry about this. I have subscribed to many blogs along the way, and occasionally have a big prune.My pruning rule is as follows: if the author addresses me, the reader as a guy, they lose one point. If they use the term of address as ‘Hey, they lose another. If they use ‘gonna’ ‘wanna’ etc, they get wiped immediately. If they have an obvious Christian message, they are struck out. If they have a conservative political message, gone! If the writing is waffling and childish as isn;t written by a child but a fully grown woman, out!
PS. The link to the Italian Artisan Baker took me to an Air B&B site.
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Thank you so much for the complement on the photography. I think the reason Facebook was a ‘fail’ for me was that the persons I originally joined to keep in touch with all but stopped using it, and I was left with a lot of people’s photos of friends’ grandchildren and cars and things that just didn’t do it for me! In theory it should be a good thing, though. I love your ‘pruning rules’. I’ve never written mine out but all of yours would be included in my list. I have limited time and it doesn’t include waffle. The link to the Italian Artisan Baker is to his Air B&B site where he teaches sourdough baking. I included the Instagram account name because that is where I found and follow him, but I know a lot of my blog friends aren’t on Instagram. I must find that Gurramul and Paul Kelly version of Amazing Grace. Was it on YouTube? Thank you, as always, for your thoughtful comment. I’ve been wondering if it is very wet for you, with all the rain in Victoria but it looks to me like it has gone on either side of you, for the most part.
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It’s raining cats and dogs- bread making and soup weather here ardys, loving it.
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Oh my, thank you for including the song on this blogpost. What a magic contribution. Modern media at its best. xx
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Isn’t it always the way, Ardys, that what applies in one sphere will often apply in another? My partner calls that ‘transitivity’, which I like too. So if we would use discernment to choose our friendships or other relationships, a job, a school for our children, what food to eat, or how to treat a particular health condition, then why would we not use that same skill that has proved so useful, to choose what media we consume? It is very easy to be consumed. Media is a veritable tidal wave just waiting for us to open our front door to it. Like you, I choose to live away from the beach (although not as far as you!) because I prefer to be able to open my front door without being swamped. I love your analogy by the way 🙂
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Thank you so much Sara. I like the term ‘transitivity’ for things that apply to multiple areas of life. Will we be consumed, or do the consuming, and if so, how and how much?? This morning on my walk, I listened to a podcast for the first time. Glennon, Martha and Linda. Once they got past the ‘waffle’ it was a very insightful and interesting discussion. I was having to work at whose voice I was hearing tell what stories, though. They have all had huge lives and have a lot of wisdom to impart. Looking forward to listening more, so thank you for inspiring me to finally DO that! xx
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Yes! Awesome, so glad you listened to your first podcast, yay! May there be many more xo
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