a few things…

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I have tried several times to complete a post in my established style on this blog. Have you seen the results? Obviously I have not been successful. So I thought I might try a different format that is a little shorter. Why shorter? One of the problems that has developed over the last sixteen months is the loss of some use of my right hand. There is still no diagnosis but the name for the set of symptoms is Ataxia. It consists of three common symptoms 1) Loss (or partial loss) of use of a limb 2) problems with balance 3) speech/memory problems. It is usually caused by a stroke or a head injury, neither of which I have experienced, or disease which has not been identified. While I await seeing more specialists in addition to the two I’ve seen, I have begun physiotherapy and occupational for the right hand and balance, and will seek more adaptive measures if necessary. Once I have those under control I’ll see a speech therapist, but I’ve decided to wait on that one until the other two are underway. The recent year has been huge for us and very challenging, so I don’t want to ‘over’ overwhelm my already ‘whelmed’ self!

The transition from rural frontier to city life has been flowing along these 5 months since leaving Alice Springs. It seems boring for me to write about how we had to visit the bank in person twice to get them to change our residential address correctly. Or to describe how easily our driving licences were changed over, even tho I will not be using mine. And the story of how I got lost walking to a doctor’s appointment even though Don and I had already done the walk once, is one I won’t forget but you needn’t worry over. It has nothing to do with my current physical problems and everything to do with me being born without any sense of direction whatever.

Each week, indeed, each day, unfolds with small delightful surprises as well as some aforementioned challenges. I thought I might try to record a few per week to write about. Part of my therapy is to practice writing, so I will record what I can in longhand and since typing is also a slow struggle I’ll see how we go from there.

The first five things…

Making chicken soup in the pantry/laundry
  1. There is a lovely young lady, probably high school or university student, who works at my favourite IGA. She always greets me like she is happy to see me and she usually gets me talking because she asks questions. Recently she asked what I was going to use the bunch of parsley for that I was buying. I answered ‘chicken noodle soup’. She looked at me enquiringly and said I’ve never tried making that. I responded that it was easy and rattled off my recipe in about 20-30 seconds. And she seemed to appreciate it. She helped put the parsley in my bag (my right hand doesn’t work so well and my left hand was holding my phone from payment). As I turned to wish her a nice day I noticed two other people in line smiling patiently at the ‘old lady’ telling the young one how to make chicken soup. I’ve become an old lady, I guess, but there are worse things.

2. This morning on my walk I took this photo of the pigeons from the ground that I watch every morning from our balcony as the sun comes up and the warm rays hit the peak of this 100 year old church roof. They have a delightful way of greeting the days in a flock, sweeping over a small part pf the neighbourhood. Each circuit a few pigeons from the roof fly up to join the flock and a few leave the flock to rest on the peak of the roof and enjoy the golden light.

    figs

    3. Fig season has apparently started. I say apparently because coming from the Northern Hemisphere 42 years ago still has me confused about when seasons occur for which fruits and vegetables. Maybe I will learn more now we live across the street from the Central Markets with over 70 stalls! I might have eaten a whole box of figs in three days this week. I’m only human.

    4. It was a very, very big deal this week that I discovered my very own shortcut to my favourite walk destination on South Terrace. (See above ‘born with NO sense of direction’) It honestly boosted my self confidence hugely as I continue to learn the city.

      The gardens of South Terrace

      5. Imagine my surprise last week when I decided to try painting left handed and it went well. Exceedingly well. I had tried sharing the task between both hands but that felt limiting. So in the spur of a moment I just started a new painting with my left hand and kept going. It took three one hour sessions on subsequent days to get a result, but when I did, it was quite a thrill. Let’s have three cheers for neuroplasticity!

        Setting sun at Grange Beach

        10 responses to “a few things…”

        1. What a brilliant painting and with your left hand, isn’t neuroplasticity wonderful!!! I like the format and look forward to many more updates on your new life in Adelaide and adaptations to the health challenges – all brought together perfectly with your unique sense of humor.

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          1. Thank you so much Penny. Unfortunately subsequent painting has taken second place to therapies and practices, but I have narrowed down my next challenge for painting and have the paper chosen and the reference photo printed. I have no high expectations, which is probably healthier on my mental state at the moment. xx

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        2. Ardys . . . it is truly great to hear from you even if life has not been great in parts. Am glad you are settled in Adelaide – the ataxia would have been much harder to cope with in the Alice. Since I developed rotor cuff two years ago (arm muscles and tendons have parted company in both arms, the pain is pretty dreadful, I cannot lift either arm and am too old to have the long operations performed) I too well understand what lack of movement means! Some things in life we cannot alter but you are also obviously changing what you have to do to ways you can. Including still making your own chicken noodle soup instead of buying it 🙂 ! Going walking . . . and painting the way you can! The result of the painting must bring you pleasure . . . I just love the soft romantic result. Am still envying you your Central Markets and hoping the next lines too us will not be too long in coming . . . you have been missed . . .

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          1. Thank you Eha. I’m sorry for your painful shoulders. I had those too but not as bad as yours, and the Pilates I started nearly two years ago has helped a lot. It’s overwhelming when one’s body starts deteriorating in several areas at once. I will talk more about the Central Markets in due course…meanwhile FIGS! xx

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        3. Ardys it’s good to see not only a blog post but challenges have not impacted your sense of humour, appreciation of the delights of everyday life and ability to make excellent art. I imagine your interactions in IGA are pleasant interludes in a long day… does not everyone welcome good food & cooking tips.
          I enjoy reading about your life in Adelaide and its minuatae. I can imagine the pigeons, the figs, the neighbourhood. But I don’t have to. Thank you.

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          1. Thank you Dale…I owe you a read. My eyes are also a problem now and altogether it means I just get to do less reading and writing. Not only the IGA is a pleasant interlude, all of Adelaide seems determined to be friendly and positive! We have never lived in a friendlier place. AS for the sense of humour I credit my parents for that. They were both funny even as they aged and after all, why not? There is nothing to do but go with the flow. xx

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        4. Keep the faith, Ardys! Thinking of you and sending hugs. Maralah

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          1. Thinking of you too Maralah. 🤗🤗

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        5. I think you are adapting so well and I love the photos! Of course I’m drooling over the fresh fig! I love you and wish you all the best going forward!

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          1. I’m so glad you were able to leave a comment finally. I noticed as I was compiling the post some updating of interface had been done with the site. Appreciated but also meant it added quite a bit of time to my task as I figured out how to use things again. Thanks for reading, I know you knew some of this already ❤️❤️

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        I’m Ardys, the creator and author behind this blog. I’ve found great joy in the unexpected and tiny things in life, as well as some big ones…and in between is where I’ve learned my lessons. I like to write, take photos and paint and I hope it resonates with you.