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It was unusually cold here in Alice this July, the coldest on record. Having mentioned the low temps and heavy frost to a few people and received their surprised reactions, I thought I’d give you a little look into the cool side of life in Alice.
For several mornings the temps have been below 0 Celsius (32F). It had gotten gradually colder each morning until a few weeks ago when it hit -4C (24F). Undaunted, and unaware of immediate future events, I headed out to feed my little local group of Crested Pigeons. Don calls them my ‘adoring fans’ as they await their morning seed. Why wouldn’t they adore me, there’s not much food around on these freezing cold mornings! I love to watch them jostle and rearrange themselves to get their little share. Most mornings there are around 20 of them. After they have eaten they often ‘floof’ and perch on the steps or the brick wall and preen themselves or each other in a very satisfied way. They make soft cooing sounds and when they take off, their wings make a whistling sound due to the shape of the feathers. The little bit of orange/red around their eye and the nicely coiffed crests make them look like permanently startled little aliens. They make me smile.

I feel very sorry for them braving these cold temps this week. Can you see in the photo how cold everything looks? Or is it just me?
As I ventured onto my usual route around the golf course I began to notice more and more frost settling. The grass was crunchy and crisp under foot. I stopped to take a few photos but honestly, the tips of my fingers felt like they might get frostbite so I hustled on home within half an hour.



After breakfast and a shower I made a cup of tea to sip while checking emails. Once finished I walked the empty cup to the kitchen. And there out the window was water where it shouldn’t be…pouring down the pavement in the courtyard. My gaze scanned the area back toward the source of the flow and sure enough, a pipe had burst. Having no idea what to do first I contacted Don who had the car and came straight home from his desk at Uni. Meanwhile I called my usual plumber. They weren’t answering their mobile number or their office, which is usually a bad sign. Once someone called me back, he gave me the bad news…22 others were ahead of me in the queue.
They know me and I took their advice to sit tight because probably no other plumber would be able to get to me either, such was the case load across town. Even the golf course fairway in front of our house had a burst pipe. The plumber asked me to send him a photo of the damage situation, which I did immediately. Aren’t phones a convenient thing at times??
I quickly realised, though, if this had happened a week later, we would be in Adelaide for me to have the dental surgery, and it might have been days before anyone had seen the situation, let alone thought to turn off the water. Lucky us, I thought.
Don arrived home and turned off the water at the meter. So no water for me that day, which completely changed my plans for cooking and cleaning. Don left and I began to think. I hadn’t saved a jug of drinking water. I went next door to see our neighbour, and ask if I could get a jug of water, which would keep me from having to turn the water back on in case the worst happened and we had no service until the following day, which was what the plumber had said would probably happen. I hadn’t yet projected into the future the issue that would arise around using the toilets! A failure to plan is a plan for failure??
Once at the neighbour’s house I explained to him what happened and he looked at the photo and said ‘I can help you’. Oh, no, no, I don’t want to impose on you. He insisted it was no imposition and he would follow me home and have a look. He decided he could cut off the offending blow out and cap the pipe, which would mean I could turn the water back on until the plumber could get to us. Within about 40 minutes he had returned and made the repair. We turned the water on and not a drop leaked. What luck, not to mention a good neighbour. He’s helped me out of a few difficult situations, and I return the favours–like the time they were away and their little dog escaped its care givers several kilometres away, and was wandering around outside home in the heat. We spent a snuggly afternoon together in the air conditioning.
Meanwhile I busied myself in the kitchen, packing up a couple of my special brownies for he and his wife, and a jar of special ‘brew’ that I have started making with the orange peels from the same neighbour’s orange trees. They have about six trees and enough oranges to feed the entire street, but lucky me is allowed to harvest whenever I want to. And they have an open invitation to harvest our limes and lemons when they are in season. They are frugal and lovers of fresh food so I knew they would be interested in the orange cleaner I’d been making. Within a few weeks of each other I’d seen articles about making cleaner from orange peels and white vinegar on both Gardening Australia TV show, and on Instagram. I had started a jar of it in early June and already strained and was using it with great success. So I filled a small jar full for the neighbour to try as well.
About half an hour after our neighbour left, the plumber called and said he had a break in the action and he could come immediately if I was home. I was. He did. Within another 40 minutes the repair had been fully completed and I had water again! The plumber who showed up to do the work was not the one I’d spoken to on the phone, but he had been here a few times. For a long while when he would come to do work, he had a tale of deep sadness after his wife left him and was not letting him see his son. He had welled up with tears one day when he was here, and I had listened and tried to give him some hope. When he arrived that day, he had his son with him, since it was still mid-year school holidays here. He seemed very happy and glad to be doing the job for me. It made me wonder if he had stuck his hand up to come and help me…because perhaps I had helped him. We never know these things.
How lucky was I that day?
It seems to me there are a number of different kinds of luck. The serendipity of good luck are those times of near misses, the car almost hit you, the branch nearly fell on you, your newborn is a good sleeper etc. Then there is the not good looking luck, to which we are more challenged to respond. Then there is the luck we make for ourselves. We make a decision and there are outcomes. Sometimes we even don’t make decisions, and this has outcomes as well. If we live with intention and try to open our eyes to what is happening in the moment, we can choose to throw the peels in the bin, or to make orange and vinegar cleaner…and share it. We can be thoughtful and respectful to neighbours and workers, or not. If that is luck too, then count me in.
I’m not even kidding you a tiny bit, I finished this post and looked at my email inbox and the first thing that came up was an ad for an Apple original film called “Luck”. Do you think the muse is playing with me?
Kindness will always follow us. I so look forward to your writings! Hugs.
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Awe, thank you Bettyann! So nice to hear from you. Hugs to you as well.
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Ya know, I’ve always tried to be a kind person, but these days it feels more important than ever to spread kindness. I notice that it feels really good just to smile and exchange friendly comments with strangers in the grocery store, as a sort of counterbalance to all the hostility in the world. And as you’ve seen, the kindness has a ripple effect through the community, improving life for everyone.
Also, I love those crested pigeons!!
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Yes, kindness only takes some time and consideration mostly, and everyone can do it if they want to. I just enjoy seeing people smile or knowing I have possibly improved their day a little. Good for you Kim! Haha, thanks for the vote for the crested pigeons. I feel like the old bird lady with them but who cares? Not them!!
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I loved this post!!! These days it does help to ‘train’ my family to appreciate the good things that happen to give balance against all the challenges and of course, practice kindness and giving – love that my grandchildren are putting this into practice little by little!
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That’s really good to hear Penny. Thank you for the compliment on the post but also for putting some more good people into the world!
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Those crested pigeons are beautiful. What are the pink-headed birds to the rear? And isn’t it funny how one thing leads to another? These situations always have something to glean from. We can never know truly, how our response to something can touch another and make a difference.
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I’m so glad you asked about the pink-headed parrots, they are Galahs. And they are behaving in total character, which is to say they are photo bombing and generally quite funny. They have a reputation for being the ‘clowns’ of the Australian bird world. You are so right how one thing leads into another and every situation seems to have something of value for us. I’m continually surprised by how our responses to things can weave in and out of other events. Thank you Lori. xx
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I wondered if those were Galahs! You’ve written about them and photographed them before. They’re one of my favorites.
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Birds -for the most- make very good neighbours. On both sides, people -also for the most- similarly appreciate a positive and caring presence and although we and they don’t ask for much, contributions are appreciated and favours returned not in kind but in other ways. It’s that kind of kinship that assists us to draw all kinds of luck to us. Indeed it does look chilly in Alice. So much to takeaway… I make a lemon citrus cleaner but orange similarly but orange would be lovely too, and of late many peels have been tossed unnecessarily it now seems.
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It’s interesting to experience that one can be friendly and helpful in reciprocal ways, without needing to be ‘friends’. Yes, kinship is another good way of thinking about it. I actually have another post nearly finished where I will talk a little more about the citrus cleaner. I’m kind of obsessed with it because it works SO well and smells so much better than the commercial brands…and of course is environmentally more friendly as well. Hope you are both recovered from the ‘rona. xx
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Wonderful post…Lovely photos of your “Adoring Fans.” Crunchy grass signals fall for us…our favorite time of year!
“But first Kindness,” were the words written on a beautiful young woman’s tee shirt, who was dying of cancer under my daughter in laws’ very attentive but frustrated care. After she passed, her grieving family had those words put on scarves, tee shirts, mittens, beanies … in memory of their beautiful daughter. We have little control over many things that happen in our lives, but “Kindness like a boomerang always returns.”
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Thank you Donna. That is a nice, but sad, story. It seems to me it hardly takes any effort to be kind, whereas being rude and aggressive takes more energy, so why not ‘be kind’? xx
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