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I’ve just read that a blog I follow is on ‘life support’. In my case it is the author of my blog who is nearly on life support. I have been struck by a chronic case of ennui. It’s a great word, unless, of course you are in that state of being…
The only bright spot was two weeks ago when our daughter contacted me that she had managed to get two tickets to the sold out Taylor Swift concert in Adelaide. Did I want to come see it with her? I had to get my upcoming flight moved forward two days to make it in time, but our brilliant travel agent got it done.
Neither our daughter or I are in Tay-Tay’s normal target audience, but for some reason we both wanted to see her. I think because she is a class act. The average age of most attendees was about 15, though there were some parents in their 40’s, perhaps, accompanying their daughters. But nowhere did we see another silver haired 62 year old, I can assure you! Never mind, age is just a number, and silver hair is just lacking pigmentation. The very dedicated fans were decked out in all kinds of angel wings and fairy lights which was delightful. I was, however, not taking photos, lest I be mistaken for a child pornographer in training.
Attached to each seat when we arrived was a bracelet. In the age of chip-and-digital-everything, you will not be surprised to learn that the bracelets were programmed to accompany Taylor’s performance and so would change colours in unison, without notice! We had a seat with optimum views of the audience, if not the stage, which, in this case was brilliant. We could look out into the sea of lights and colour while watching the performances. It was very, very fun. At the end I told our daughter, “you might have invited a friend whose company you would have enjoyed more, but you could not have invited anyone who would have enjoyed the concert and being with you more.”
How often does a 27 year old daughter invite you to a concert?
Well…twice, it would seem.
Friday night of the same week, and the original reason we were flying to Adelaide, was to enjoy our Christmas present tickets from our daughter—to see Hugh Jackman’s show. It could not have been more different than Taylor Swift, hers being a concert of music and spectacle, Hugh’s being more like a broadway show.
Nor could our seats have been more different.
We were four rows from the front. And our daughter’s seat was next to the stage extension used by the cast and, of course, Wolverine himself, and his very fine glutes! At the end of the show he moved the length of the runway and ‘high fived’ everyone who held out their hand. Allison can never wash her hand again, now.
And just to remind us who is still in charge of Life, the Powers that Be arranged a soccer match on the same night so that the Entertainment Centre parking was full. As was every side street and neighbourhood for over a kilometre away. Our darling daughter dropped us off and then went on her own to park the car. In high heels, she hoofed it back to the show, only temporarily missing her sense of humour, which Hugh reinstated rather quickly. After the show we all hoofed it for nearly half an hour through dimly lighted streets, using our phones to light the footpath so Allison didn’t fall.
It was worth it.
For a few days the ennui lifted, and forever I will remember those very special experiences, as well as two days puppy sitting the grand puppy and visiting with our darling girl who I miss very much. It was the gift of a lifetime.
How spectacular is all of THAT?? My goodness! And that last photo is so very sweet. I’m so happy for you that you were able to spend special time with your daughter. I’m embarrassed to say I had to look up the word, ennui. I am not surprised anymore that there is still much for me to learn from my friends!
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You are not alone. I had never heard the term before seven or eight years ago. It just stuck in my head as a word I liked the sound of, and it is so much more interesting than just saying you have the ‘blues’. I’m not usually given to slumps in spirit but it happens to us all now and then and it’s better to just go with it than to fight it. Everything has a purpose. I’m SO enjoying thinking back about last week though! Blessings to you Lori.
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Those were wonderful experiences ~ a Taylor Swift concert has never been on my agenda, but now I feel that I have really experienced it! I am sorry that you are in a state of ennui. I do hope it lifts very soon, and that you can get your old mojo back.
All good wishes for this festive season.
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Thanks Anne. I think ennui is something that comes and goes for most of us. Best wishes to you as well.
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How often does our 28 year old son Todd invite us to a concert?
6 or 7 times a year. Of course, he’s a conductor and trumpet player!
Travel used to be said to be broadening,,,now it’s Challenging!
Today most of mine is done via our Mercedes Sprinter 3500 diesel based Winnebago motorhome. (Our fifth).I read in Variety that Taylor Swift made
over 70 million dollars this year. Those big concert venues are really techno
palaces but parking is such a pain! Today is Phillip’s birthday. He would have been
57! Gone since 2002. As George Clooney said for his memorial “Phil was here for the good times…too bad not for a longtime.!”May I send from “up-over” to way
“down under” Happy Holidays and an especially HNY2016. Blog on Dear Ardys!
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Thank you dear Mel! I’m glad you have reminded me of Phil, your lovely, talented son…and of Todd, also your lovely and talented son! Best of life for you and Seiko and families in 2016!
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Sounds like you needed that….ennui is a very descriptive word and I’ve luckily kept it at arm’s length…on paper
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Wink, wink, nod, nod. 😉
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I have heard her shows are amazing. And obviously it isn’t just the artist, but the whole digital entertainment spectacle. I am so glad the “silver hair” got to attend with the daughter. lol. That place where you would never have guessed yourself to be! I don’t know much about Hugh Jackman but I know enough to appreciate the comment about the glutes. tee hee
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Yes, isn’t it amazing when you go to that place you never expected yourself to be? And enjoy it???? I wouldn’t have mentioned Hugh’s glutes but he WAS showing them off a bit!! He’s a true entertainer, a very fun show to see also, and I am not a concert goer normally.
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As I was reading this I was reminded how wonderful it is that our adult children and grandchildren enrich our life experience in such unexpected, amazing ways! Actually most everything I know about Taylor Swift I’ve learned from granddaughters and most everything I know about Hugh Jackman definitely came from our grandson who insisted we know of Wolverine! Cuddles with a grand baby….no matter the lineage – priceless! CUTE picture Ardys, thanks for sharing!
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I agree, Donna. Children and grandchildren are like little portals into other worlds through which we are fortunate to get a glimpse. And grandpuppies are reminders of why we have children and puppies when we are young and still full of energy!!
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What a clever antidote to ennui, being open to the enjoyment of experience that’s a little different. To anticipate to enjoy something is one thing but a gift of the unexpected is quite another. I love the Nanna and grand puppy pic and sentiments. In my family the four-legged furry-ones are family also 🙂
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Yes, the ennui threatened to settle back in after we arrived home but it has been banished for the foreseeable future! Thank you Dale, hope you are in relaxation mode now!
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The moving essentials are done, and we’ve shifted into holiday -at home- mode. Enjoying the simple life 🙂
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