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Generally I am a grateful person. As well as the good things, I am grateful for all the sad and challenging things in my life, for they, too, make me who I am, and who I am has much to be grateful for. But because I am human I have days I would rather not have. Today, for a while, Life got on top of me. In addition to some health issues I’ve been dealing with, the Universe took the opportunity to give me, yet another lesson in patience.
We are having a town council bi-election in 10 days’ time, because a man who is a serial offender of making bad decisions quit the council after only a few months. He did this because of his original bad decision, to try to start an ‘escort agency’ in town (registered address just up the street from us). It backfired. He quit. Maybe that was a bad decision and maybe it wasn’t, I mean who wants this clown on our town council? But it costs the town about $90,000 to run a bi-election. So, thanks, buddy. Voting here is mandatory. Because of this guy, I was required to wait in a queue on voting day, or pre-poll vote, as well as see my tax dollars used for something I had already paid for just a few months ago. In an attempt to at least mitigate the queue standing, I pre-poll voted.
Dissolve scenes to the freezer section of the grocery. The turkey I wanted to buy was just out of my reach. Happens a lot, I’m a bit short on one end. So I stopped a young worker and asked him if he would please reach it for me. Nice man, he happily did so. As I approached the queue for the checkout the man working the area announced “If you want service, step up to the self checkout there are empty stations there”. Nice. If you want service, give it to yourself. He’s a nice bloke, has worked there for years and looks like he’s pretty tired, but so was I. If you have a backache, pushing a shopping trolley will only make it worse. They are designed with the centre of gravity for someone at least three inches taller than myself.
The trolley full of groceries, and I, arrived at my car in the parking lot to see that someone had pulled too closely to my car for me to easily get the groceries into the boot. I mean they were over the line by at least a foot. As I heaved the groceries, with a sore back, and wedged between my car boot and the car behind, all I could think was… the world is too much, sometimes.
What was that poem from my school days… someone named Wordsworth? How did that go??? Ah, yes, ‘the world is too much with us’. That was how he put it over two hundred years ago. I always think it is amazing when someone who lived centuries before us had similar thoughts and feelings. It connects us.
I came home and looked up the poem and thought I would share it with you (it’s short). He is lamenting that society is so caught up in itself, it has lost its connection with nature.
“The world is too much with us”
By William Wordsworth, 1802-1804
The world is too much with us; late and soon,
Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers:
Little we see in nature that is ours;
We have given our hearts away, a sordid boon!
The Sea that bares her bosom to the moon;
The Winds that will be howling at all hours
And are up-gathered now like sleeping flowers;
For this, for every thing, we are out of tune;
It moves us not. Great God! I’d rather be
A Pagan suckled in a creed out worn;
So might I, standing on this pleasant lea,
Have glimpses that would make me less forlorn;
Have sight of Proteus rising from the sea;
Or hear old Triton blow his wreathed horn.
WW was saying that nature was in abundance all around people, but they saw little of it, were out of tune, while slaving away on material lives. ‘We have given our hearts away’ he says. So sad. And haven’t we come a long way since then?
Ummm, not so much.
Those of you leading a frenzied life with the onset of Thanksgiving, Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah and whatever else, try and do a little less. Take the time to watch the raindrops trailing down the window pane, or give the family pet an extra scratch and pat, or close your eyes and take a deep breath and let it out slowly.
This is me saying, two hundred years from now, let it be written, ‘the world is at peace with us, and we with it.’
After the frenzy of Christmas buying, cooking and eating while the children play with their toys I find that inner relaxation that allows you to do just as you suggest.Watching the raindrops crawl down the windows ( yes, it rains here at Christmas too) brings even more peace. I’ve decided to make it Christmas every day in my world so that feeling stays the year round and I always feel towards my fellow man as I should. Of course I may find myself going broke with all the shopping but we all have a cross to bear and Father Christmas may find himself on overtime. I suspect it won’t be long before someone invokes a Sanity Clause.
xxx Huge Hugs xxx
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Yes, a Sanity Clause might be just the thing that is needed!
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Hugs. And love to you. Through all the craziness of living and doing….it is my grandchildren that make me stop and enjoy the rain………
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That’s lovely, Bettyann. Sounds like I need to get me some grandchildren!! X
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So much wisdom comes in the form of three words “take the time”… those three words can change so much, and also the three I have written on a post-it at my desk “let it go”. When the world is too much with me, it’s these words I take a deep breath and read.
I’ve never before read that Wordsworth poem. It’s interesting he harks to the pagan beliefs and a ‘creed outworn’… that’s not exactly what happened. More like a ‘creed overrun’. But so many of us are now seeing the value in the essence of those pagan beliefs.
I read your post last night but wanted to give it some thought before replying, as it touched me. Sometimes I tend to be busy and grumpy, or is it grumpy and busy… It’s at those times I tend to not be able to find the good in anything but need it most.
I’m getting better at knowing and being kinder do myself. Asking do I need to do this, now or at all.
Your pre-poll voting is a good example… do I really need to go through that again, when it’s not of my doing. No. It feels good to make that sort of decision.
Usually I food shop on Saturday mornings but sometimes if I’ve had a big week, I just don’t. And, we survive. I can always tell when I’ve made a good decision – the tension I’ve felt from being conflicted about what I should do leaves me.
Those words ‘the world is at peace with us, and we with it’ are perfect us to takes in the season, and going forward. They give hope 🙂
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Beautiful thoughts, Ella. Yes, ‘let it go’ are really good words. It is the determining when it is time to persevere or let things go that gives us such difficulty… ‘the wisdom to know the difference’
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Thanks for these wise words, Ardys. It’s just the reminder that I needed to here right now and holiday prep isn’t even in the mix yet. 😉
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You wouldn’t believe it (well, probably you would) I was just thinking this morning how nice it would be to hear from you!! All the best. X
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We may be continents and oceans away, but we’re connected.
Blessings my friend!
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Yes, some days the world seems to be too much and can bring me to tears. I can so relate to the day that you had. Do those days allow us to appreciate even more the quiet, simple beauty that is also around us? Some say yes. So glad I waited until today to read this post, the beginning of a potentially crazy week. I am going to determine to keep it all in perspective. Xo
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