We have been in Darwin the past week. I’m still processing the events. Whenever we visit, I am taken back to memories of the first years of my life in Australia. Because we stay in the city, and our first flat was in the city, these are my old stomping grounds! But not. So much has changed it is hard to grasp. For example, Darwin is much more beautiful now than it was then. But I was newly in love and so it still appeared beautiful to me. But mostly it was, and still is, so unique and diverse.
The Esplanade Bicentennial Park area did not exist in its current form and now is a joy for my early morning walks, with many glimpses of the sea just beyond the trees. This time I did something I have never done before, walked down to Lameroo Beach where the very rocky native stones meet the sea. It connected me in a new way; this mountain person who could love living by the sea.
Three days were spent with old friends, two days with the same friend who I came to know here in Alice, but who moved to the North 10 or so years ago. Jo is recovering from a brain injury through an accidental fall at work. She is doing very well but is working very steadily at it. She never once bemoaned her bad luck or her ongoing issues of headaches and memory struggles. It was my joy to be able to help her set up a blog page which I commend to you. She is still learning the ropes but I know you will be kind to her. Her first post was so moving, she will most certainly be a fabulous contributor to the blog community. Jo plans to write about her many interests as well as her journey recovering from the brain injury. Because I think you will enjoy her writing and her story, here is a link: https://intralude.wordpress.com/
My other dear friend is one I made 30 years ago. We share an interest and practice in art, among other things. This time we attended the ‘After Afghanistan’ Exhibition by renowned, and official war artist, Ben Quilty. Having seen a documentary about his creation of the works, I was still unprepared for how moving they would be in person. You’d think I would know better! They were really about energy–the energy of one’s being that is changed when going off to war. I felt the emotion of several of the pieces as if they were physical blows to my solar plexus. Even thinking back on them now my tummy tightens with emotion. That is art.
Arriving home yesterday to the flashing button of the answering machine was an inauspicious welcome, as it turned out. My credit card has been compromised. Fortunately the bank was quick to recognise it and so there is only a $7 debit that got through. But now, everything that I normally do with my card, which is EVERYTHING, must be changed over when the new card arrives, probably in about a week. It could have been so much worse, and for that I am grateful.
But it has unhinged me a little. The post I had been working on will wait for another day.
This much I know for sure, and needed no processing…I have loved my life and cherish my friends, who are testaments to that life, as I am to theirs. In the words of German theologian, philosopher, Meister Eckhart “If the only prayer you ever say is ‘thank you’, that will be enough”.
Sounds like a delightful trip to Darwin Ardys. Pity about your return home! I must say I have never been to Darwin before and haven’t desired to either…too hot, no winter :). It does look beautiful though. And of course, you have friends there, which is everything.
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If you ever decide to try Darwin, go in the dry season. The heat is not so much the problem there as the humidity. It’s a killer if you aren’t used to it or in my case just don’t have the right body type for it. But you are right, it’s the friends I go back for, above all else.
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Prayers. And thank you. For being a high school friend. And an inspiration during your days at Channel 12 in Cincinnati. You certainly had the “EDGE.”
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Haha, thanks Maralah…am working on a post about how I came to work at Channel 12, it was a funny story.
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Lovely post, Ardys. It has always been a deep experience for me to be blown away or tremendously moved by an artist’s work. I never walk away the same person. I am also a “rock” person… I love these varied, smooth stones in your photograph of Lameroo Beach. What an unusual place Darwin City appears to be… yet old friends and heart connections are the best reason to revisit from time to time and enjoy their friendship and love.
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Thank you Lori. Friends are definitely the main reason I return to Darwin. Darwin is a unique place and was quite something to get used to when I first came to live there. Those stones are such beautiful colours, lavender, yellow and red, and smoothed out they look so pretty. In some places along the foreshore you can see the striations of the colours as they would originally have been.
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It’s interesting to return somewhere after many years, it’s changed, we’ve changed. I know the G.O. felt similarly when we went to Darwin in 2007, and it was under development even then, so many things will have changed even more next time. But it’s a beautiful city, and I felt very at home there despite weather I’m not at all acclimatized to.
It sounds like you had a lovely break, enjoyed the place, the company and a fix of tropical weather, always welcome mid winter.
On a practical note, I’ve found the financial institutions to be reassuringly efficient re credit card incursions. It’s a hassle swapping cards but at least it’s not as bad as it could be.
And thank you for the link to Jo’s page. I’m looking forward to more of her posts.
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The first day we arrived the humidity and temperature were up and it was miserable. But as usually happens in the dry season, the next day brought drier, cooler days and it was pretty good the rest of the week. It was a nice mid-winter break. I don’t usually feel the need for one, but we’ve had unusually cool days in Alice this winter, and some very cold nights at -6 even, a couple of times. Brrrr. Yes, I’m very grateful to our bank and am trying to be calm about the whole credit card thing. Thanks for reading Dale.
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You remind me that I need to get back to Darwin- it is a beautiful city and a great place to wander about. The watercolour edit is a gem- That still life interior looks like a real painting. I must now read your friend’s post: she sounds like a strong woman, as you are too.
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Thank you Francesca. I was very pleased with that watercolour edit of the photo I took of my friend’s home. It just looks like an artist or someone who appreciates beautiful things lives there. I could fill a book with still life photos taken around her home!
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To end your travels with such dear friends who are like family is icing on your delicious journey. Discovering the slight slip when arriving at home is like a tiny misstep in dishing out a bowlful of those scrumptious memories, but the quote at the end–a more perfect cherry on top one cannot find.
This was beautiful, Ardys.
Glad you’re home safe and sound.
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Such a beautiful post, ravishing images, the sea and the rocks, the gorgeous still life i kept looking at it, it was so beautiful, the paintings went straight to my heart, and such profound stories about your friends… I’ll be exploring your friend’s blog…
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Thanks so much Valerie. I have only had success with Stevia in its liquid form and in very small amounts. It gets bitter very quickly. I have good success using xylitol for baking and have made the torte Santiago recipe on my blog using it and am thinking a version of that with the apple and Rosemary might be interesting. Glad you enjoyed the images in this post.
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Have been wondering how low you had to go to get that beautiful photo of the stoney beach to the sea. I love that photo. I could live by the sea. Thank you, my friend with whom I continue to share new experiences. About the war photos – I remember being in American History class – Mr. Mohler teaching- and looking around the room at the “boys” in our class and wondering how do you ever prepare for going off to war. Fortunately the war (Vietnam) war ended and our classmates did not have to go. But that is a memory that has been with me all these years and was reminded of in your post today.
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I can tell you how low I had to go to get that photo of the beach, low enough to get a dozen or so sand fly (no see’ems) bites that are still red and itching ten days later! When we visited Turkey and Gallipoli last year and learned of the horrors of that battle, not to mention the rest of the war(s) you would think our world would have figured out a better way to handle disputes by now. Sadly it has not. Thank you dear friend for reading my words. x
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It would be nice if no see’ems did not see us either!
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Haha, very cute, and yes, I agree!!
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